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This is a complex issue. There are a lot of arguments, debates, and flame wars that revolve around this issue.
Here's where I'm coming from:
It was winter (March 2015), and over four months had passed since I last worked up the nerve to present as anything but male. It's hard to think of four months as "quick" but before then it had taken years to come to a point where I would allow myself to step out of the box I had been placed in. I had posted the results of my last "exploration" to great success and my confidence was at an all time high.
This time I had actually gone out and purchased new clothes - something I thought I could never do alone.
I tried on one of my new outfits and looked in the mirror. I stared for a long time, frozen. The first thing that finally came to mind was 'what a joke.'
I wasn't beautiful, I wasn't cute, I wasn't even feminine. I was a joke.
I spiraled into a deep depression, the new clothes haven't been worn since but for a matter of minutes, and although I am beating back my self loathing one day at a time I couldn't help but wonder where it had come from?
Then I remembered the cartoons I watched growing up where silly characters would put on women's clothes - look atrocious - and get a laugh.
I remembered loving (and laughing) at things like Monty Python where toady men would smear makeup on their faces, don wigs, and screech like parrots.
Was that me, too?
I have not renounced any of this entertainment, but I can't help but feel sorry for the walls they help build around my femininity.
I don't like talking about my gender issues.
And the reason for that is I'm terrified of not being taken seriously.
In my mind, it's okay, as long as the crossdressing isn't considered "Trans" in-universe.
Aaaaaaand cue the cancel train.